Delivery day is one of the most exciting and emotional milestones in the surrogacy journey. As a surrogate, being prepared with everything you need can help the day go smoothly and keep stress to a minimum — so you can focus on the amazing moment of bringing new life into the world for your intended parents.
To help you get ready, here’s a practical checklist of what to pack for your hospital or birthing center stay.
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Important Documents
- ID and insurance cards
Bring your driver’s license or photo ID, plus any insurance cards related to your maternity care or hospital stay. - Hospital paperwork
If you’ve pre-registered at the hospital, bring those forms. Also, have copies of your surrogacy legal paperwork and contact info for your agency and intended parents handy.
- ID and insurance cards
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Comfortable Clothing
- Loose, comfortable clothes
Pack pajamas, a robe, and slippers or flip-flops for walking around the hospital. - Going-home outfit
Choose something comfy and easy to wear, keeping in mind you might still look a bit pregnant right after delivery. - Nursing bras or comfortable bras
Even if you’re not breastfeeding, these can provide extra support.
- Loose, comfortable clothes
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Toiletries and Personal Care
- Toothbrush and toothpaste
- Hairbrush or comb
- Lip balm and moisturizer (hospitals can be dry)
- Shampoo, conditioner, and body wash (travel size)
- Contact lenses and solution or glasses, if needed
- Sanitary pads (the hospital usually provides some, but you may prefer your own)
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Entertainment and Comfort Items
- Phone and charger (with extra-long cable if possible)
- Headphones or earbuds
- Books, magazines, or tablet for downtime
- Snacks and water bottle for you and your support team
- A pillow or blanket from home for extra comfort
Tips for Packing
- Pack your bag several weeks before your due date to avoid last-minute stress.
- Coordinate with the intended parents and your agency about hospital protocols, who will be present, and any visitor restrictions.
- Keep your phone charged and with you.
Final Thoughts
Being prepared for delivery day means less stress and more space to enjoy the incredible experience of helping create a family. Packing thoughtfully ensures you have what you need to stay comfortable, connected, and ready for the beautiful moment ahead.