The big day is finally here — your baby’s arrival through surrogacy! As intended parents, being prepared with the right essentials for delivery day helps you stay calm, comfortable, and fully present for this incredible moment.

When you’re getting ready for the hospital, packing thoughtfully will help you focus on what matters most: welcoming your child and supporting your surrogate.

Here’s a comprehensive checklist of what intended parents should pack for delivery day.

Delivery day is one of the most exciting and emotional milestones in the surrogacy journey. As a surrogate, being prepared with everything you need can help the day go smoothly and keep stress to a minimum — so you can focus on the amazing moment of bringing new life into the world for your intended parents.

To help you get ready, here’s a practical checklist of what to pack for your hospital or birthing center stay.

  1. Important Documents and Contact Info

    • Photo ID and insurance cards
      Some hospitals require ID and insurance information.
    • Hospital registration paperwork/birth plan

      If you pre-registered, bring copies or confirmation details and/or a copy of the birth plan you created with your surrogate.
    • Contact list
      Keep phone numbers for your agency, legal team, surrogate’s coordinator, and hospital handy.

  2. Clothing and Comfort

    • Comfortable clothes
      Pack layers—hospitals can be chilly or warm. Include comfortable shoes and socks.
    • Going-home outfit
      For both you and your partner or support person, if applicable.
    • Extra clothes
      In case the day turns long, or you need to change.

  3. Essentials for the Stay

    • Phone and charger
      Bring an extra-long charging cable so you can stay connected and capture moments.
    • Snacks
      Labor can be unpredictable. Pack energy bars, nuts, and your favorite snacks for you and your support team.
    • Toiletries
      Toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, and other personal items for a longer hospital stay.

  4. Comfort Items

    • Pillow and blanket
      Hospitals can be uncomfortable, so bring something familiar to make your stay cozy.
    • Entertainment
      Books, magazines, tablet, or headphones for downtime.

  5. For Baby’s First Moments

    • Going-home outfit and blanket
      Usually provided by intended parents. Confirm with your surrogate and hospital what’s needed.
    • Car seat
      Installed and ready in the car — many hospitals won’t let you leave without it properly set up.

Final Thoughts

Delivery day is a life-changing event filled with anticipation and joy. Being prepared with the right essentials helps you stay focused on your new baby and supporting your surrogate. This day is the culmination of a beautiful journey — cherish every moment!

Posted in News by A Host of Possibilities • October 26, 2025